Short answer: teach children simple rules, give your dog space and choice, and supervise closely. Dogs Trust says even the most tolerant dog can find children's energy, noise and unpredictability difficult.

Rules for children

Dogs Trust says hugs and kisses can make dogs feel trapped or worried, and suggests gentle strokes instead, which lets the dog choose to move away. Dogs should be given space when they are eating, sleeping, resting or enjoying a toy. VCA suggests teaching children to walk calmly, hold out the back of a closed hand and wait for the pet to come forward.

Supervise and separate

Dogs Trust says to step in as soon as you notice a problem. If you are busy or distracted and cannot stay close, separate them with baby gates, play pens, highchairs or different rooms. See a rest space for the dog and a dog who snaps near children.

Get the right help

If your dog growls or snaps at a child, keep them apart and ask your vet and a qualified behavior professional for help.

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Frequently asked questions

What rules do children learn?

Gentle strokes instead of hugs and kisses, which can make dogs feel trapped, and never disturbing a dog who is eating, sleeping or resting.

What does the dog need?

Space and choice. Even the most tolerant dog can find the energy, noise and unpredictability of children difficult.

What if I am busy?

Separate them with baby gates, play pens, highchairs or different rooms. Step in as soon as you notice a problem.

What about a growl or snap?

Keep them apart and ask your vet and a qualified behavior professional for help.

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